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The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby Penox on Wed Sep 30, 2009 11:22 am

Well I debated posting this for a few weeks now. Mostly do to embarrassment of some parts of the story. But as hard as it can be to stick with the program WITH seeing gains and seeing the affects of using the gains with your spouse maybe posting it would have the potential to help at least a few people stick with it and to me that would be worth it, so here it is.

I have been married for 13 years. Starting out penis size was 5.8 BPEL and 4.3 EG. My wife and myself haven't had an argument in the last 8 years of our marriage. We don't lie to one another, get along like best friends, and are rabbits in the bedroom, we bump and grind on average 5 to 8 times a week. Perfect marriage!

My size has always bothered me, past girlfriends have commented on it, I swept it under the rug. My wife commented on it when we first started dating, probably at the time not knowing I would be the man she married, otherwise I think she would have kept it to herself.

I decided to use the extender and NOT tell her. Women can and most of the time are more insecure about their vagina then men can be about their penis. I thought the side affect of me telling her would devastate her, with her thinking its her and not myself is why I wanted the increase in size.

Off the top of my head the big gain was around week 6, I hit 6.25 BPEL and 4.6 EG. And that is when I noticed a HUGE change in the bedroom.

For the past 13 years of my marriage I was smart enough to realize you always get the women off first if you want consistent sex. So 9.5 out of 10 times I have. But the kicker is it has always been through stimulation of the clitoris. She would ride top so it would rub on the base or I would just perform oral sex, then after she finished it was my turn.

Up before week 6 I have never gave her an orgasm doggy style, maybe a hand full of times in the missionary position but again I think I was rubbing the clit during those hand full of times.

With her on her stomach never, sideways, never. Sideways I could "sometimes" feel something with the tip of the head, something gently brushing across the top.

So after week 6, my goodness have things changed. For one I can go for about an hour to an hour and a half. Normally we were both done in 20 to 30 minutes.

Now any position we do it she has one without clitoris stimulation. On her back, on her belly, doggy style, you name it she has 2 and sometimes 3 before I get off. This is EVERY time. She does have me do oral or ride top to get hers, like this is a phase and it will stop and she still wants her fill first. But when its my turn she now every since week 6 "my big gain week" she has had 1 to 3 just during "my turn" to get off. And now instead of just feeling a brushing across the head sideways, I feel it all the time, its still just a slight touching doggy style and her on her back. But now I feel it every position. And sideways and her on her stomach its not a light touch, if I push in too far it actually bends my penis. It can hurt if I am not careful. But man it drives her up the wall.

Its not the cervix, I "think" its the start of the curve that goes up to the cervix. So all good so far, I love it and she loves it, but has she said anything? Actually yes, twice! So this is the side affects =).

After week 6 we were laying in bed and she acted like she wanted to say something, after 15 minutes she ask, "are you taking Viagra?". I said "no why", ohh no reason, you go a bit longer now. I just told her it was due to stress at work. Yes I lied.

Two weeks after that and after sex she said, "man I am getting old", I asked her why and she said " i have read when you age your inside portion of the vagina can come down some, and I think that is happening because you keep hitting something when we have sex". I told her I can stop hitting it, you just seem to like it. Then she said "no don't stop, I was just thinking of why it is now happening and that has to be it".

So yes she has noticed, Yes I finally lied in this marriage, but unless she gets depressed about age over this I will still hold these cards close to my chest.

So there you have it. A very small gain, can be VERY NOTICEABLE for both parties!!!

Thanks for reading my short book, I hope it encourages at least someone to stick with it.
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby treetop on Fri Oct 02, 2009 10:41 pm

Thanks for sharing. It is very encouraging, and much needed information.
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby Penox on Mon Oct 05, 2009 7:10 am

I have mentioned in other post before it can be due to the added Penis volume, erection quality, being able to last longer, or just confidence boost.

What ever it was, purchasing this device in order for me to see that big of difference was worth every penny.
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby changeling1 on Mon Oct 05, 2009 12:18 pm

Very cool story, I am in the same boat (but only 2 weeks of use thus far) and hope for the same "results" :D
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby pfm on Mon Oct 05, 2009 1:05 pm

I had thought about hiding it when I first got the device, but I didn't need the added stress. I told my wife about it and she had no problems with it.
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby clevis on Mon Nov 02, 2009 9:22 am

please share more after a few more weeks or months.
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby Mrsticky on Wed Nov 04, 2009 10:57 am

I loved that story,,,,thanks for sharing
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby Penox on Thu Nov 12, 2009 2:53 pm

[quote="clevis"]please share more after a few more weeks or months.[/quote]


Well its been a while since I posted that story, Now "its" a bit bigger BPEL = 6.625, EG 4.6. Things are still changing in the bedroom.

I don't go as long now, maybe I over trained and it took me longer to get off in the bed room, or it truly was stress at work that made me go for 1 hour +. So its back to a 30 minute complete session for the two of us.

But.. She still rides top or has me do oral to get her fill first, "like its still a phase". And she still has another orgasm during the session of "my turn". Its not 3+ orgasm per session for her now since I ain't going 1 hour +. But she gets one with clit stimulation and I can lay her missionary or doggy style and knock another orgasm out of her in about 5 minutes, during my turn.

Its absolutely amazing, I love it. Never could I have imagined giving her a orgasm missionary position like that before. The confidence boost is through the roof.

She hasn't made anymore comments about the size, but as soon as she does I'll be right back here to post.
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby Penox on Sun Dec 13, 2009 6:55 pm

Well I thought I would give another update. I hit 6.75 EL and still at 4.6 EG. Keep in mind I have done zero girth work. Matter of fact I won't focus on the tunica until I hit my goal EL "which keeps changing".

I notice at 6.75 there was another significant change in the bedroom. I was shocked I didn't get any different type of responses from her between the 6.25 to the 6.75. But I noticed different reactions from here for about a week, then when I measured sure enough it was at the 6.75 mark. We were snowed in due to the storm so we had a lot of "in the sack time".

At 6.75 I can feel a lot more pressure on this last quarter of an inch gain. It almost feels like a mouth closes and "squeezes" the last 1/4 of an inch when I push it all of the way in. Now in missionary position if i sink it all in she puts her hands on my hips to stop me, and actually complains of discomfort sometimes. Before 6.75 that has NEVER EVER happened!!

But when she is "really" warmed up there is no complaining and the pressure is not as intense on me. I believe the vagina is providing a better fit due to a good warm up of fore play.

Don't get me wrong I'm not out to injure her or feel like a stud because I can cause pain. The reason that I will continue to use this product is the fact that I don't like that idea I have to angle or sink in every last millimeter to reach that high. I want to hit a good EL mark so I don't have to park it all in. I want to be able to hold some back if i have too and not wiggle and maneuver to get every little bit in.

As of now at 6.75 it is much easier to provide her an orgasm. She still rides top or has me perform oral sex before its officially my turn to get off. "She cannot sit up straight on top since about 6.25 it is just way to painful for her. Its literally not possible, she leans forward or lays on me". But during my turn I can knock another one out of her easily in 5 to 10 minutes.

So 7.5 here I come. That is my goal. Depending on the ease or difficulty of hitting 7.5 I may or may not change it to 8. Who knows. Only time will tell. Right now my tension is maxed at 1600 grams, and I have to hold of on the new extender for awhile
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby sportsfreak on Fri Feb 26, 2010 8:43 pm

THAT STORY IS VERY MUCH A CONFIDENCE BOOSTER CAUSE I KIND OF HAVE DOUBTS OF THIS WORKING. FIRST I HERE IT CAN TAKE 3 TO 4 MONTHS TO SEE VEERY LITTLE RESULTS. AND THEN SOMETIMES IT DOESNT EVEN WORK. BUT AFTER YOUR STORY I CAN SEE MYSELF GIVING IT TIME. I ALSO AM MARRIED AND DUE TO OUR BUSY WORK SCHEDULE AND 2 SMALL BOYS. IT IS REALLY HARD TO FIND THE TIME TO HAVE SEX. AND WHEN WE DO I FIND THAT SHE GETS OFF WHILE SHE IS ON TOP. NOT REALLY IN ALL OTHER POSITIONS. I CAN SOME WHAT FEEL HER SPOT WHEN SHE IS ON TOP AND MOSTLY SHE CAN CLIMAX WITH THE HELP OF ME PLAYING WITH HER CLITERUS. I WANT TO BE ABLE TO HIT HER SPOT IN EVERY POSITION. I GUESS THATS WHY I GOT THIS PRODUCT AND BY GOD I HOPE IT WORKS IN TIME. IM CURRENTLY ABOUT 6 INCH ERECT AND MY GOAL IS TO REACH 8 INC ERCECT. JUST GOT MY EXTENDER 2 WEEKS NOW AND WEAR IT FOR 4HRS. 6DAYS A WEEK. AT ABOUT 600G. AM I SO FAR DOING IT RIGHT AND WHAT VWOULD OTHERS RECOMMEND? THANKS FOR THE INFO GUYS..
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby bradman on Wed Mar 03, 2010 11:42 am

Agreed! THis is very motivational for us all!

Can you tell us a bit about your ruitine?

How long do you wear the extender per day? Do u take 5 minute breaks between hours?

Any ruitine info would be great!

Best of luck reaching 8" ;)
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby S_G on Mon Mar 15, 2010 6:12 am

If you consider buying an X4 labs extender, you have to realise that you'll be wearing it almost 8 hours a day. If you are to shy to explain to your lovely wife the reasons that motivated you to enter this planification, you'll have to be very very very creative to find 8 hours a day where no wife is around. So, my advise to you is to talk right away to your wife about your objective and the reasons that motivate you to reach them. This way, you'll have the support of your wife and, most important, you won't have to lie (that would be not good for the your couple).

Happy stretching!
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby Penox on Tue Mar 23, 2010 8:31 am

**you have to realise that you'll be wearing it almost 8 hours a day**

This is not true. I'm lucky if I hit 3 hours a day. My routine consist of.

Hot Wrap = 5 Minutes.

Extender for 2 to 3 hours. with about 3 to 5 breaks in-between. During each break I jelq for about 5 minutes then strap it back in.

After the extender sessions are over and when I'm at home I will manually stretch when no one is around or do the BTC stretch. Also about 4 months after i started the extender i started hanging lightly 5lbs two times a day for 20 minutes for 2 or 3 days a week. I'm at 7 now and don't see myself increasing it anytime soon. I do this just to severely fatigue the ligs.

Without all of the "extras" I hit 6.50 with the extender alone and I was lucky to hit 8 hours a week. Its a marathon not a race. Less is more in the PE world.
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Re: The affects of doing PE "Without" telling your spouse!

Postby monaug5 on Wed Mar 24, 2010 3:10 pm

Excellent work so far Penox!
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