Well I debated posting this for a few weeks now. Mostly do to embarrassment of some parts of the story. But as hard as it can be to stick with the program WITH seeing gains and seeing the affects of using the gains with your spouse maybe posting it would have the potential to help at least a few people stick with it and to me that would be worth it, so here it is.
I have been married for 13 years. Starting out penis size was 5.8 BPEL and 4.3 EG. My wife and myself haven't had an argument in the last 8 years of our marriage. We don't lie to one another, get along like best friends, and are rabbits in the bedroom, we bump and grind on average 5 to 8 times a week. Perfect marriage!
My size has always bothered me, past girlfriends have commented on it, I swept it under the rug. My wife commented on it when we first started dating, probably at the time not knowing I would be the man she married, otherwise I think she would have kept it to herself.
I decided to use the extender and NOT tell her. Women can and most of the time are more insecure about their vagina then men can be about their penis. I thought the side affect of me telling her would devastate her, with her thinking its her and not myself is why I wanted the increase in size.
Off the top of my head the big gain was around week 6, I hit 6.25 BPEL and 4.6 EG. And that is when I noticed a HUGE change in the bedroom.
For the past 13 years of my marriage I was smart enough to realize you always get the women off first if you want consistent sex. So 9.5 out of 10 times I have. But the kicker is it has always been through stimulation of the clitoris. She would ride top so it would rub on the base or I would just perform oral sex, then after she finished it was my turn.
Up before week 6 I have never gave her an orgasm doggy style, maybe a hand full of times in the missionary position but again I think I was rubbing the clit during those hand full of times.
With her on her stomach never, sideways, never. Sideways I could "sometimes" feel something with the tip of the head, something gently brushing across the top.
So after week 6, my goodness have things changed. For one I can go for about an hour to an hour and a half. Normally we were both done in 20 to 30 minutes.
Now any position we do it she has one without clitoris stimulation. On her back, on her belly, doggy style, you name it she has 2 and sometimes 3 before I get off. This is EVERY time. She does have me do oral or ride top to get hers, like this is a phase and it will stop and she still wants her fill first. But when its my turn she now every since week 6 "my big gain week" she has had 1 to 3 just during "my turn" to get off. And now instead of just feeling a brushing across the head sideways, I feel it all the time, its still just a slight touching doggy style and her on her back. But now I feel it every position. And sideways and her on her stomach its not a light touch, if I push in too far it actually bends my penis. It can hurt if I am not careful. But man it drives her up the wall.
Its not the cervix, I "think" its the start of the curve that goes up to the cervix. So all good so far, I love it and she loves it, but has she said anything? Actually yes, twice! So this is the side affects =).
After week 6 we were laying in bed and she acted like she wanted to say something, after 15 minutes she ask, "are you taking Viagra?". I said "no why", ohh no reason, you go a bit longer now. I just told her it was due to stress at work. Yes I lied.
Two weeks after that and after sex she said, "man I am getting old", I asked her why and she said " i have read when you age your inside portion of the vagina can come down some, and I think that is happening because you keep hitting something when we have sex". I told her I can stop hitting it, you just seem to like it. Then she said "no don't stop, I was just thinking of why it is now happening and that has to be it".
So yes she has noticed, Yes I finally lied in this marriage, but unless she gets depressed about age over this I will still hold these cards close to my chest.
So there you have it. A very small gain, can be VERY NOTICEABLE for both parties!!!
Thanks for reading my short book, I hope it encourages at least someone to stick with it.






